Happy Birthday Heather!

It doesn't seem possible that this little girl will turn 25 on Oct. 29th. It seems like just yesterday that her father and I were celebrating the announcement of her impending birth with family and friends. I remember my father saying "are you sure your ready for a baby." Well, I remember thinking "well it is a bit too late now to think of that." However, it was one of the most exciting days of his life when I gave birth to this little girl. She was the apple of his eye.

I do have to say that it was questionable if I would every have her. I was in a car accident when I was 7 months pregnant. A car rear ended our car and put me in the hospital in premature labor for a week. After finally getting the labor calmed down and sent me home I went two weeks over my due date before finally having her. I might say there were lots of trips to the hospital in false labor but when finally labor started it was hard and long. I would estimate about 1.5 days of labor before finally giving birth to her. In those days it was IV drugs and no epiderals for the pain and lots of doctors and nurses saying "sometimes first babies take forever." I remember telling my mom, dad and her father "I was sure I had made a mistake about wanting a baby and lets go home." It was too late and I am glad it was because she has made me very proud.

She has lived through lots in her 25 years of life and made us proud. Unfortunantly for her, her father and I divorced just two years after her birth and until she was 5 lived with mom and visited dad. She was lucky because her father was always part of her life. We were lucky to find Tom when she was only 6 and she had "two" dads. Then she became a big sister; something she never thought she would become.

She attended 12 years of Catholic School and graduated from DeSales High School. There was only 4 children in her graduating class that had gone through the Catholic School System in WW from the beginning to the end of their education. It was a day I will never forget. She spent a year kind of floundering and wondering what she wanted to do and then did one of the bravest things I could ever imagine; and one of the most heart breaking days of my life. She moved to Arizona to live with her grandparents and go to a Intense Nursing School. She graduated high in her class even though she called sometimes 5 times a day and just knew she could not and would not make it. She has moved right along in her Nursing career and is in Nursing Administration in Arizona at a Long Term Care Facility. I remember when my father was in the last week of our lives she was with us every minute and gave us good advise and made sure grandpa was well cared for and got everything he needed. She paid him back for everything he had done for her in her life. I know she misses him more than to the moon and back and to the moon again because in many cases he was more than just her "Grandpa."

So here is a picture of her when she was about 3 and celebrating Halloween. Halloween was always celebrated well at our house because we always celebrated Halloween and her Birthday together.

Here she is this past September. A lovely young woman with a husband and young daughter. We are so very proud of who she is and what she has accomplished.

Happy Birthday early sweet girl!

Love, Mom